Once I made the life-changing decision to seek a divorce, I knew I was going to need some help and guidance. Lauren was the perfect fit for me in that she was able to share her legal knowledge about the divorce process with me, but also could provide me with the needed emotional support and validation I needed along my journey. I started my sessions with Lauren feeling lost and finished our time together confident and hopeful. I am so grateful and I would recommend any woman going through the divorce process meet with Lauren!
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You know you want to resolve your divorce with as little damage to yourself, your family, and your bank account as possible.
You’ve heard staying out of court may be the way to go. But you wonder whether it will work for you because your spouse can be difficult and your situation has some challenges.
You’re about to embark on a legal process you don’t know much about and make high-stakes decisions on critical issues that will affect your future for years to come.
All of this is expected of you at a time when intense emotions may be making it challenging to see your situation objectively or stay at the negotiating table.
You don’t know what’s reasonable to ask for in terms of a settlement.
You want to get this right. But you’re not sure how or where to start.
That’s okay. You’re not supposed to know how to do that already.
With more than 40 years of combined experience as Southern California divorce professionals, we do.
Don’t waste money, time, and effort going into the divorce process unprepared.
Do divorce better than the horror stories you’ve heard. Whether as the mediator for you and your spouse, or as your divorce coach, we can help you do just that.
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Divorce Coaching
One-on-one, individualized support to help you understand and successfully navigate the divorce process.
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Get the preparation and guidance you need to succeed in divorce mediation.
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If you’re looking for a divorce coach that can help you understand your next steps and create a smart plan of action, you're in the right place.
Our collective experience, knowledge, and expertise make us the right choice for your divorce. Contact us today to schedule a consultation with one of our experienced divorce coaches.
Experience: Divorce Done Differently™
Having a professional, alternative dispute resolution-trained divorce coach can help you divorce better. We can assist you with:
Efficiency
Take the most efficient route through the divorce process, saving money, time, and frustration.
Privacy
Keep your personal family business and finances shielded from public view by making smart process choices.
Control
Maintain as much control over the outcome as possible. Don't let a stranger in a black robe decide your future if at all possible.
Affordability
Don't break the bank or spend the kids' college funds just to get a divorce.
Managed Conflict
The research is clear: How kids weather divorce is directly correlated to how much conflict there is between their parents.
Even if you are in a high-conflict situation, we can help you navigate it.
Post-Traumatic Growth
Learn how to better communicate and manage conflict. Make the best decisions for your future. Rebuild a life you are excited to live.
Don't make costly mistakes
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Divorce Coaches
We are committed to helping clients successfully navigate the divorce process and retain more control over the outcome of their divorce.
What Our Clients Are Saying
I started my sessions with Lauren feeling lost and finished our time together confident and hopeful.
Katie S.
With her coaching, I was able to stay more calm and collected during the process, and minimized conflict with my ex as much as possible.
I found Lauren in a coaches’ group where she was highly recommended by many fellow coaches. Lauren is an amazing coach that met me where I was and walked me through every step of the process before I even initiated my divorce. With her coaching, I was able to stay more calm and collected during the process, and minimized conflict with my ex as much as possible. This not only helped me but my whole family, especially the kids. I highly recommend having Lauren on your side for navigating through a divorce!
Joanna W.
She is understanding, yet no-nonsense and helped to keep me on track with the overwhelming tasks of starting over.
Lauren was an amazing support to me during the beginning stages of my divorce when I had no idea what I was doing. Her non-judgmental, “stop beating yourself up” approach was exactly what I needed. She is understanding, yet no-nonsense and helped to keep me on track with the overwhelming tasks of starting over. She helped me focus on the positives in my life and gave me strategies and tools that fit with my particular situation. I will forever be grateful to have been able to lean on Lauren through this emotional and difficult process.
Megan B.
When I was stuck on decisions, she was able to talk through all the possible outcomes to help guide me towards a decision without pressuring me one way or another.”
This was my first time ever going through a divorce and my ex had done it 3 times. He was great at manipulating and knew what he was doing. I had no idea. Lauren was able to provide me with all the info I needed and guided me when I had NO idea. I never would have been able to get as far as I did without her. Lauren was very supportive and helpful! Lauren was able to provide me with peace when I was stressed by explaining the next steps and reassuring me that what I was asking for wasn’t anything ridiculous. When I was stuck on decisions, she was able to talk through all the possible outcomes to help guide me towards a decision without pressuring me one way or another.”
Caitlin W.
Lauren Fair’s expertise, empathy, compassion, and thoroughness were a grounding force for me during a traumatic time.
Lauren Fair’s expertise, empathy, compassion, and thoroughness were a grounding force for me during a traumatic time. Compounding the typical stressors of divorce were the realities of fundamentally different parenting styles. I often found myself lamenting to Lauren. She served impeccably . . . to the point where Lauren also became a confidante.
Jamie S.
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At Sensible Split Divorce, we understand that figuring out your next steps in your divorce can be overwhelming and stressful.
The decisions you make early on in the divorce process can seriously impact how long your divorce takes, how much it costs, and how much control you have over the outcome.
The first step is to request a consultation. We can help you take it from there.